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8 yrs
Aug 8, 2011 2:05:40 GMT -6
Post by lucy on Aug 8, 2011 2:05:40 GMT -6
8 yrs ago yest. I lost my wonderful precious Daddy. He was such a huge part of my life. I miss him every single day. I still rem. exactly how I felt when my brother-in-law and neice came down and knocked on our back door and told us they were on the way to the hosp. with him but it didn't look good. And I drove to the hosp. myself. It was Bub's first day of first grade. I walked into the ER and 2 of my sisters were standing there and they both looked so sad and shook their heads and I broke down and I screamed and cried! Then my Mommy came out and she told me it was ok. She was so strong. But it has not been alright and never will be. Then Mommy took me in to see him. I hugged him and kissed him. And we got to stay with him for about an hr and half until the funeral home man came to pick him up. It was sooo hard to see that man wheel him out of there and knowing he was going to the funeral home. That was one of the worst days of my life. The only one worse was the day we buried him. Sorry to go on and on but this is the only place I pheel phree to put my true pheelings in print for people to read. Thanks to all my phamily here phor allowing me to be myself here.
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8 yrs
Aug 8, 2011 5:57:16 GMT -6
Post by mogarden on Aug 8, 2011 5:57:16 GMT -6
Sorry for your loss. It's really hard when the anniversary rolls around.
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8 yrs
Aug 8, 2011 6:44:45 GMT -6
Post by Rita on Aug 8, 2011 6:44:45 GMT -6
Sorry Lucy! I know its a tough thing ... and you will always miss him!!
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8 yrs
Aug 8, 2011 12:05:09 GMT -6
Post by Pharmer Phil on Aug 8, 2011 12:05:09 GMT -6
Lucy, as long as this forum is here, it will always be a place that You and any phamily member can share and be cared about.
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8 yrs
Aug 9, 2011 18:45:33 GMT -6
Post by Christy on Aug 9, 2011 18:45:33 GMT -6
Sorry for your loss Lucy.
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8 yrs
Aug 10, 2011 7:05:53 GMT -6
Post by ChileFarmer on Aug 10, 2011 7:05:53 GMT -6
Lucy, I don't think we ever get over the loss of the ones we love. I think maybe our mind just tolerates it. I have lost many and now am the oldest. I have seen them all pass. No grand parents, no parents, no aunts or uncles. But us remembering them keeps our spirit alive. As well as there memory. CF  |
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8 yrs
Aug 12, 2011 0:38:28 GMT -6
Post by lucy on Aug 12, 2011 0:38:28 GMT -6
Lucy, I don't think we ever get over the loss of the ones we love. I think maybe our mind just tolerates it. I have lost many and now am the oldest. I have seen them all pass. No grand parents, no parents, no aunts or uncles. But us remembering them keeps our spirit alive. As well as there memory. CF I like that CF! Makes me feel better. Not that you've lost everyone but what you sd that our remembering them keeps their memory alive. |
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8 yrs
Aug 12, 2011 20:44:06 GMT -6
Post by Songbird on Aug 12, 2011 20:44:06 GMT -6
It was 9 years ago in May that my Mom went home, and on Sept 4th, it will be 16 years since my Daddy went.
It doesn't matter how many years go by, the anniversary still brings back sharp pangs of emptiness and bittersweet memories.
I totally understand!
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