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Post by hunter63 on Dec 2, 2014 16:34:09 GMT -6
Like my intro section said....I haven't been here for a while......
Was feeling poorly last fall.....and ended up with by-pass surgery.
Ever since I have been really trying to get back going.... and have to say....It's been hard.
Didn't garden last summer....did clean up and grow green manure crop, and had the neighbor till in......along with the left over leaves and last years compost.
Hunting season the Doc says don't shoot the big guns.....so kinda breezed thru, and didn't work on it very hard.
I guess what I'm saying is simply .....I have kinda lost interest in a lot of things....and was wondering if anyone has experience the same thing.......
Any ideas?
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Post by MinnMike on Dec 2, 2014 17:12:47 GMT -6
Yes, I can understand what you are saying. It's easy when change is forced on us to feel kind of lost. "Oh I can't do anything anymore, I just won't even try" And that feeling builds on itself. On the other hand finding new things that you can do and feel good about builds on itself too. Maybe you can't do a big garden like you used to.But a raised bed or two or even those Growboxes can produce a lot and be pretty easy to keep up to. If you need to get some help to get it set up, so what. Or something that you are into (archeology ?) that you can research and write about. Can't really tell you what would work for you but am sure there are probably several things that would give you satisfaction. I was forced into an early retirement and went through a rough patch for a while but have found many things to keep busy and interested. Life changes and we have to "go with the flow"
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Post by hunter63 on Dec 2, 2014 18:56:37 GMT -6
I guess that is kinda where I have been at for a while now....and keep tying to get excided about things.
Do go to therapy 3 times a week, kinda feel good about that.....so will keep plugging along.
Big garden has shrunk when the kids left home....and was finding that "Less was More"...6 tomatoes are easier to keep track of than 30.
Just wondering if anyone has felt these changes...sound like you have.
Friend says the first year is just a wash-out....so don't get nuts and start selling stuff....LOL
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Post by BestoFour on Dec 2, 2014 21:15:16 GMT -6
You've been through a lot so it will take time to recover. It's hard to take time to let yourself heal. Your interest in things will return as you feel better and can do more. You may have to change a few things but I know people who have had serious conditions and ended up going right back to hunting and fishing and living their almost normal life. The main thing is to give yourself time and do what the doctor says. Trying too hard to go back to what is your normal before you're healed will only prolong your recovery. Visit us here a lot. As you know we are a happy group.
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Post by spuds on Dec 3, 2014 9:15:55 GMT -6
Well,my 2 cents I guess. Change is hard,but we all face it.I just take it a day at a time,its all I can do,and accept it as it comes along. The one that gets me is when we dont get out,feels like a totally wasted time,that gets me down.And it feeds on itself,I force myself to get out when it happens. Example,yesterday went to thrift store up the hill just to move,saw friend Joanie,we talked about our homes and animals and such,saw her cool projects on her rabbitry,learned how to process rabbit hides (she is making moccasins for the relative kids.)Heard her hilarious stories of raising she says the dumbest birds on the planet,quail,and what a worthless venture that is,man alive,they ARE dumb.I thought ducks were dumb,nope,quail are so dumb they get stepped on as too stupid to move out of way,and so small hard to see em on ground. Plus we got 3 books on tape,a 5 gallon water bottle,a handful of toys for the dogs that really made Girls' day,she gets soooooo excited looking thru the bags for toys,goofball. Needed some water glasses and found 2, 12 ounce Noritake frosted glasses,20 bux each on ebay,Needed some more plates and got 5 very nice old English China plates....three new tee shirts that say Im a referee for American Youth Soccer League,LOL (I'll wear anything on a shirt if its cheap,heehee!) All for 5 Dollars,Merry Christmas from Joanie.  Oh,she also told us to get in touch if we decide on meat rabbits and she will get us going on stock. Now how cool is that? Made our day and got our minds off the negative stuff in the world. That sure beats looking at 4 walls and being bombarded with bad news from the TV! |
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Post by hunter63 on Dec 3, 2014 13:45:24 GMT -6
Yeah, thanks, ...I hear ya.....gotta keep moving.
Just going out to the bank this morning...Garage door opener didn't work....Like crap here we go....
Got the door open with other opener, went to bank cashed the check, got a hair cut, battery for the garage door opener, stopped by car wash, (really dirty form being at our cabin)....found out I had a free wash coming......
So yeah was a good day so far.
Just seems like it's taking forever.
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Post by w8in4dave on Dec 10, 2014 13:29:05 GMT -6
I also have to force myself to do things. Some people don't go thru stuff like this. Daves mom was 92 years old and kept a sparkling house and did everything. I know I'm not going to live that long. And I don't have the energy to keep a sparkling house. But I try! I guess all you can do is the best you can do!
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Post by caveman on Dec 10, 2014 15:16:59 GMT -6
I was disabled in 98...after that life has be nothin but ups and downs.....for the last few days i have'nt been well at all.....hell, a few years ago the docs ssaid i was gonna die, they even had all my pheople come see me for the "last" time.....i'm still here. Yeah, i don't get out much, but i don't want to either.  |
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Post by w8in4dave on Dec 10, 2014 15:57:23 GMT -6
I was disabled in 98...after that life has be nothin but ups and downs.....for the last few days i have'nt been well at all.....hell, a few years ago the docs ssaid i was gonna die, they even had all my pheople come see me for the "last" time.....i'm still here. Yeah, i don't get out much, but i don't want to either. Ohh jeeze I miss read that! Thought it was I was disabled at 98 LOL I was thinking OMG how old is he! Here I am crying about being 54. LOL I was just Dx'd with fibromyalgia.. On top of being Celiac. No wonder I don't want to move! |
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Post by hunter63 on Dec 10, 2014 16:03:21 GMT -6
Had a discussion with a friend at therapy this morning.......
Discussing Christmas gifts....on what we can and can't use any more...at least for a while yet.
Just gets frustrating.....
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Post by caveman on Dec 10, 2014 16:29:24 GMT -6
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Post by caveman on Dec 10, 2014 16:34:12 GMT -6
Hey spuds......like the stuff ya bought agree
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Post by spuds on Dec 10, 2014 16:34:31 GMT -6
In my case its the World has tilted into Bizarro World and I cant even see the groove,much less get on it.I so deeply fear for the grandchildren and great grands,its going to be an ugly world they inherit.
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Post by spuds on Dec 10, 2014 16:35:44 GMT -6
Hey spuds......like the stuff ya bought agree Crazy 5 bucks,eh? |
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Post by caveman on Dec 10, 2014 16:47:08 GMT -6
Hey spuds......like the stuff ya bought agree Crazy 5 bucks,eh? You betcha...... agree |
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Post by Colorado on Dec 10, 2014 18:12:21 GMT -6
You guys wait till you get into your 80's. I turned 83 early last month. In March I gave my doctor copy of living will and copy of my power of medical attorney. I signed DNR for hospital here last month. ER doctor was worried I guess. Told him I was a tough old woman. Nurses was laughing at him. He wants me to stay over night just in case. I do and next morning I am up and eat every thing and they brought a lot. I told him I go afib from some foods. Then morning he is wanting me to use walking sticks/hiking poles to exersize my arms and upper body when I walk. My regular doctor wants me walking 7 miles a week. Not sure I will live though these doctors. The ER doctor is my monitor here for my INR warfarin. I hurt BAD in hands, arms and shoulders. RA. Doctor can not treat due to heart condition afib . 2 Ibuprofen morning and evening does not do much. .. I am not getting much done.
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Post by w8in4dave on Dec 10, 2014 19:44:28 GMT -6
You guys wait till you get into your 80's. I turned 83 early last month. In March I gave my doctor copy of living will and copy of my power of medical attorney. I signed DNR for hospital here last month. ER doctor was worried I guess. Told him I was a tough old woman. Nurses was laughing at him. He wants me to stay over night just in case. I do and next morning I am up and eat every thing and they brought a lot. I told him I go afib from some foods. Then morning he is wanting me to use walking sticks/hiking poles to exersize my arms and upper body when I walk. My regular doctor wants me walking 7 miles a week. Not sure I will live though these doctors. The ER doctor is my monitor here for my INR warfarin. I hurt BAD in hands, arms and shoulders. RA. Doctor can not treat due to heart condition afib . 2 Ibuprofen morning and evening does not do much. .. I am not getting much done. Ohh Colorado I will pray for you! I feel for ya sweetie! It is good to be a tough person! I don't know If I can walk 7 miles a day! They want you to??? Ask them if they can! Just kidding .. any how you are wonderful you have a wonderful spirit and out look on life. It's what keeps you strong. I hope I can be half as good as you when or "If" I hit my 80's  Huggz to you! |
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Post by w8in4dave on Dec 10, 2014 19:46:28 GMT -6
In my case its the World has tilted into Bizarro World and I cant even see the groove,much less get on it.I so deeply fear for the grandchildren and great grands,its going to be an ugly world they inherit. I say almost the same thing! I usually say OMG I feel so bad my grand kids have to grow up in this mess! It is a crazy ugly thing they have to face! I hope my grand kids are stronger than I am! |
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Post by MinnMike on Dec 10, 2014 20:15:30 GMT -6
“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “Wow! What a Ride!”
Hunter S. Thompson
AMEN BROTHERS AND SISTERS !!!!
And remember Hank Williams "No matter how I struggle and strive: I'll never get out of this world alive!"
And FDR "All we have to fear, Is fear itself"
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Post by BestoFour on Dec 11, 2014 13:10:51 GMT -6
Spuds, I too wonder what we're leaving the grand children. I hope things will cycle around to something good. Colorado, all you can do is what you're able. If it's 5 miles instead of 7 then that's a good 5 miles. Doctors are always going to give you a goal that is more than they really expect in an effort to try and push you as far as you can go. Keeping moving is what is important. No matter how far or how fast. Just keep moving. Caveman, I'm glad you didn't give up the ghost when the doctors thought you would. Maybe having all your family there looking at you scared the life back into you. With you gone who would I pick on? |
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Post by Pharmer Phil on Dec 12, 2014 9:37:36 GMT -6
You guys wait till you get into your 80's. I turned 83 early last month. In March I gave my doctor copy of living will and copy of my power of medical attorney. I signed DNR for hospital here last month. ER doctor was worried I guess. Told him I was a tough old woman. Nurses was laughing at him. He wants me to stay over night just in case. I do and next morning I am up and eat every thing and they brought a lot. I told him I go afib from some foods. Then morning he is wanting me to use walking sticks/hiking poles to exersize my arms and upper body when I walk. My regular doctor wants me walking 7 miles a week. Not sure I will live though these doctors. The ER doctor is my monitor here for my INR warfarin. I hurt BAD in hands, arms and shoulders. RA. Doctor can not treat due to heart condition afib . 2 Ibuprofen morning and evening does not do much. .. I am not getting much done. Ohh Colorado I will pray for you! I feel for ya sweetie! It is good to be a tough person! I don't know If I can walk 7 miles a day! They want you to??? Ask them if they can! Just kidding .. any how you are wonderful you have a wonderful spirit and out look on life. It's what keeps you strong. I hope I can be half as good as you when or "If" I hit my 80's Huggz to you! I think it's a good thing that the doctor thinks you can walk 7 miles a day agree ..I don't think I can anymore..heck I did something to my hip walking across the parking lot at walmart the other day... But, I do need to try, my hips, knees and feet..are suffering from WEIGHT STRESS... anytime I get over 180..things start to hurt..right now..I'm just a hair over 200 walking isn't going to help my hands though..fingers (like Laura;s) are starting to curve..fingers locking up... Colorado, Our neighbor passed away recently at the age of 95..she had your spirit, and was active working in her garden, mowing her yard, etc. up to 93... I do know that If I make it to my 80's-90's..I'm going to have to start exercising...and not rely solely on my everyday work, chores as being my "exercise" |
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Post by caveman on Dec 12, 2014 12:46:51 GMT -6
Spuds, I too wonder what we're leaving the grand children. I hope things will cycle around to something good. Colorado, all you can do is what you're able. If it's 5 miles instead of 7 then that's a good 5 miles. Doctors are always going to give you a goal that is more than they really expect in an effort to try and push you as far as you can go. Keeping moving is what is important. No matter how far or how fast. Just keep moving. Caveman, I'm glad you didn't give up the ghost when the doctors thought you would. Maybe having all your family there looking at you scared the life back into you. With you gone who would I pick on?  I'm just a tough old buzzard....thats what i told the doc's......i just can't stand pheople tellin me what i'm gonna do.....so, the more they tell me i'm die'in the harder i fight just to spite"em.....i've been this way a long time and for someone to speak to me that way is disrespectful and that pisses me off and out come's the redneck in me. Oh....i don't mind ya pickin on me....kinda like it agree |
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Post by hunter63 on Dec 12, 2014 13:29:01 GMT -6
Went to therapy this morning.....waiting at the door on my way home...lady that had been using one of that machines was waiting as well.
She related she had her surgery in July....and asked when I had mine...
Been about a year for me.
She was having a hard time bouncing back as well....and asked if I had continued my visits passed the required time.
Told he yeah, that I need to keep pushing as everything seems to be so much harder.
She asked if I thought it did me any good.....and I guess it has....and I do feel like I came a long way.
Maybe it helped some....we will see.....
I guess I am not alone.
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Post by Colorado on Dec 12, 2014 18:50:12 GMT -6
I said 7 miles a WEEK. I walked my mile this morning at rec center.
I have not had surgery but heart attack and went afib. 5 years ago. Said walking was good. I was 5 months before I walked mile all at one time. I slowly worked up to that. I was one that walked 10 out on a days hunting. One doctor said I had to have therapy and my doctor said walk. I can do what I want. Kept wt to 111 and stay on diet for blood thinner. He said eat what I want. Blood monitor say no greens and such. No aspirin ,no alcohol, cranberries and grapefruit. I have to count my Vit K and keep to 90mcgs a day. It is fun life. Get tested once a month or more.
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Post by w8in4dave on Dec 13, 2014 7:44:26 GMT -6
I think because I have had over 20 surgeries and all my intolerances and Celiac, allergies,high blood pressure, high cholesterol, Acid reflux, was just dx'd with fibromyalgia It's taken a toll but I feel fortunate I am as healthy and can do as much as I can. almost afraid to walk out of the house in the winter, but I do! because if ya don't use it ya lose it! On that note I gotta get in the good morning thread! |
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Post by BestoFour on Dec 14, 2014 15:57:08 GMT -6
Gosh I should count my blessings every day. I don't have any medical issues. Unless of course you count insanity. |
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Post by w8in4dave on Dec 24, 2014 19:07:29 GMT -6
Well Bof bless your heart!!
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Post by Colorado on Dec 26, 2014 11:36:48 GMT -6
I am going to try to get back to doing things. That snow storm sure made me hurt yesterday.
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I'm just a tough old buzzard....thats what i told the doc's......i just can't stand pheople tellin me what i'm gonna do.....so, the more they tell me i'm die'in the harder i fight just to spite"em.....i've been this way a long time and for someone to speak to me that way is disrespectful and that pisses me off and out come's the redneck in me.